Bad News And Disappointments

When someone says “I have some good news and bad news” you nearly always go for the good news first (well at least some of us do). We’ve all been let down before, for several reasons. Sometimes it’s just mean to happen for your own good. I’ve been let down recently and I have learnt what I should’ve done and what I shouldn’t have done. I can tell you that I really shouldn’t have locked myself in the toilet and cried my eyes out. Sometimes you have to go through the toughest rain to meet the sunshine.

The disappointment that I had to face was not getting into the Secondary School I wanted, we then declined which means I have no high school to go to. But I have learnt that maybe it was just not meant to be. I realised that I had to think positive or I would probably spend the rest of my life miserable. I knew that in the end I am bound to get a school because it’s against the law for me to not go! According to my dad since that day my mood has changed, not in a good way though. Apparently, I’ve been acting more sad and tired. I hate to say it but I agree with him and I’m worried that I’m making everyone around me feel moody. Now I understand that now matter how I feel I should put a smile on and enjoy my last year at school.

 

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There is no such thing as BAD LUCK, everything happens for a reason. Luck is nothing, no one is lucky or you aren’t unlucky. You are probably thinking what the hell is she talking about, I won’t force you into believing me but I’m just telling you. I used to believe a lot in luck I would always say everyone is much luckier than me but then I learnt to appreciate what I already have. Also, I would always wear my lucky charm to school, I think lucky charms are great, although there’s no such thing as luck, I think lucky charms show your personality and gives someone a nice impression of yourself. Unfortunately I lost my lucky charm but it was no biggy as I didn’t get any less lucky than I already was.

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Life is full of disappointments but we all have to deal with it. Sometimes it’s for a good reason, other times it happens as a warning. We never expect what’s going to happen. We are all lucky in our own way, don’t let silly little disappointments drag you down.

Thank you for reading! Hope you learnt lots. Plz tell me how you felt in the comments below and please follow or like my blogs if you are enjoying hearing about all of my experiences. Thanks again!

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Big Jump!

Changing from Primary school to Secondary school will probably be the biggest step in life your ever going to have to take. I find out which Secondary school I’m going to go to on Tuesday. Sometimes the school that you would want to go to may mean you will have to be separated from your closest friends that you have grown up with.

Sometimes changing schools just means your growing up and its the time when you need to start over and try new things (well that’s how I see it), the main thing is your at school to learn. Changing to Secondary does mean harder and more challenging work, all that means is that we have grown up and everyone thinks we are ready to take on more harder challenges. I realized that when I was walking around all the different schools everything looked so big and more modern. There’s nothing wrong with that but at the moment it will feel different to us, think about it, if your one of those people who are in Year 6 in only a couple of months we will be in a total other school with other people and new friends.

Making new friends probably won’t be easy because you don’t know them. You don’t know what they are like and you wouldn’t want to be in the wrong crowd. My advice is be friendly and try to understand each other, find your similarities and differences. Try to look as presentable as you can and be CONFIDENT, believe that you can do it! But be careful who you make friends with make sure they are safe and trustworthy.

Turning over a new leaf. Most of us would want to start over and be who you truly are because sometimes we pretend to be someone else to get someone to like you. I have recently discovered that being myself makes people like me more, for example: the boy I have a crush on, ever since I started to be myself he started to like me! Being yourself isn’t always a bad thing, if anything it’s the best because that’s why god created you. Changing yourself to be someone else isn’t going to help anyone, but changing from someone you aren’t to being someone you are will help you 110%.

Don’t believe in movie eg: High School Musical, although it’s a great movie not all of it is entirely true. Especially not breaking out into a song every moment you can! I can tell you one thing (even though I’m not in secondary yet) that Secondary School will make you feel as comfortable as you were in Primary.

Good Luck to all of you who are about to go into Secondary! I hope you feel welcome and safe. Please comment if you have any queries about starting Secondary, I’ll try my hardest to help. Thank you for reading this!

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How to host a Spa Sleepover

Recently I had a spa sleepover with two of my most amazing friends, as it is my birthday tomorrow. Happy Birthday Me!

Hopefully, these tips will help you host the perfect spa sleepover if you would like to have one:)

SPA TOOLS

  • Nail buffer
  • Nail file
  • hand cream/body butter/lotion
  • nail polish
  • nail remover
  • cotton pads and buds
  • buckets (to put the warm water ready)
  • small bowls( for your hands)

STEP 1

Make sure you have your parents permissionho;hjbhk

As silly as this may sound it is vital information. If you don’t get your parents permission how will they help you, if you think you don’t need help, well trust me YOU WILL. I would say to have more than one because when you have your Manicure and Pedicure you wouldn’t want everyone else will be having theirs done and there will be one or more people waiting.

STEP2

Have a set date where you know your friends will be freecalendar

It’s great knowing that your free but what about your friends. I would suggest doing it on the weekend or near the beginning or end of the holidays as many people won’t be on their trips then.

 

STEP 4

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A themed sleepover is the best. It’s a time when you can take your creativity to a whole new level. Here’s some advice: make sure your theme suites everyone’s personality. It wouldn’t be nice to have a puppy themed party when one of your friends are allergic to dogs.

 

STEP 5

Choose who your inviting and how many

The difficulty with choosing how many people to bring is mild but choosing who is a really tough decision. I found that I knew how many people I wanted but then I had a tricky decision between lots of different people. So I suggest to think really carefully about this. Also, try not to invite too many people because you wan to give everyone your attention and it is hard trying to control loads of kids when they are high on sugar.guest-list1STEP 6

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The last thing you want is to come to the day of the sleepover and realize that you have forgotten something. I made sure I bought everything even though it did take me two trips to the Bentall Centre. Make a shopping list because that is the most helpful thing that you are going to need.

Step 7

Make sure your siblings don’t feel sad

My brother was there at my sleepover. You would probably want to get rid of them but it is their house to. My brother didn’t get in our way at all. You just need to calmly speak to them and give them some set rules. Don’t forget sharing is caring, share all your delicious treats with them too.opopopopopopopo

 

 

 Step 8

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Plan out what your going to eat and drink for each meal; will they be staying for lunch the next day? Shall we order a takeaway? But most importantly you need to find out if  your friends have any allergies or can’t eat specific foods. Also, make sure your friends are happy with what the meals are. I always like to order pizza and make homemade pancakes the following morning.

 Step 9

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Jazz it up a bit. Be creative. Get your guests in the mood of the sleepover. Light candles, hand buntings, use fairy lights etc. Don’t go to over the top because it is a sleepover and the next day everything will seem unnecessary and the more tidying up you’ll have to do.

Step 10

Have a great time

The most important thing is to enjoy yourself and make sure all your guests are happy. Ensure that you or your parents have all of the guests phone number just in case of an aab4f33f63dd887f1399dcb54ee73a0c.jpgemergency. Include everyone and make sure everyone feels safe and comfy.

 

A little idea that I did in my sleepover is henna tattoos. If you do decide to do this please please please make sure you get permission and you are under adult supervision.

Thank you for reading. Any questions? Just ask me in the comments below and I’ll try my hardest to get back to you also I would love to hear what your sleepover experiences were like. Thanks again and the next time I’ll be blogging will be when I am 11. Please like and follow my site if you enjoy my posts thanks for the third time:)

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Brother, sister love!

Every one of us who has a sibling knows how hard it is. You fight, you don’t share but there are times where we need each other.

When we are all older, or you may already be older, we will all need our siblings. No matter how annoying they are, they’ll be the only ones there for you. They’ll be the only ones who know you for you. The ones who can guide you through your problems and they will make you laugh in the craziest way possible. There is no friend like a brother or a sister.

Some Fascinating Facts About Siblings:

  1. We spend more time with our siblings more than our parents, friends, teachers and even when we’re alone.
  2. Siblings fight a lot, scientifically siblings create a conflict every 10 minutes.
  3. 65% of mothers and 70% of fathers have a preferred sibling.
  4. a big part of your individual personality comes from your behaviour and feelings towards your siblings.
  5. The youngest sibling is the smartest one.
  6. Middle children get given the least amount of attention.
  7. The most common fight between siblings is over property
  8. Parental conflicts can make siblings stronger in relationship.
  9. The death of a parent brings siblings closer.
  10. No matter how many times siblings fight there relationship is very strong.

The way you treat your brother or sister will effect the way other people will treat you. They will be your BFF’s forever, till the day you die. Try the hardest you can to be the best brother or sister you can be. If your the younger child you will live up to your elder sibling and if your the elder sibling you have to work extra hard to be as kind as you can be because your younger sibling will always follow your footsteps.

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Don’t follow your dreams, CHASE THEM!

We all have that one dream that keeps going round and round our head, that never ends. Whether it’s a crush, a passion or your future. Whatever it is if you believe in it it’ll come true. Can you live up to your dream? YES! Always believe that you can, no matter how silly or crazy it is. There is or will be that one moment in your life where you feel like your dream is long lost and forgotten. Well it isn’t, it is still there in your brain. Scientists have found out that you dream a dream that will always make you happy no matter what!

If you do have a dream don’t let anything or anyone stop you from achieving it, the only person that will stop you from achieving it will be you no one else. Your time is too valuable to be distracted by negative people. Don’t let anyone talk you out of your dreams. Go confidently in the direction of your dreams! Live the life you’ve imagined.

        From now on, believe that you can make your dream come true and that the real person to change your life from bad to great is you. Dream to your hearts content.

    We shouldn’t be afraid of anything. I get worried a lot and I want you to listen to this because it helped me massively: Imagine a box place all your worries and fears in that box until your mind is completely wiped out from negative energy and full of positive energy. Every time something makes you cry, worry or sad put it into this box. Just IMAGINE…

  Never try to change yourself but you can change your future. Your dream is your future live up to it.

Never stop believing, dreaming, live up to the future you want!

 

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Top 10 Of Absolutely Anything

I’ve decided to do something different this time. I thought it would be a great idea to do a top 10 of anything random, hope you find the list useful!

BOOKS

  1. Girl Online/ Girl Online On Tour- Zoe Sugg
  2. Braids, Buns and Twists- Christina Butcher
  3. Geek Girl collection- Holly Smale
  4. The Great Big Glorious Book For Girls-Rosemary Davidson and Sarah Vine
  5. Looking Glass Girl- Cathy Cassidy
  6. Olivia collection- Lyn Gardener
  7. Alice in Wonderland- Lewis Carroll
  8. Beswitched- Kate Saunders
  9. The girls book: how to be the best at everything- Philippa Wingate
  10. Finding Audrey- Sophie Kinsella

MUSIC

  1. Hello- Adele
  2. Eyes Shut- years and years
  3. You don’t own me- Grace
  4. Love me like you- Little Mix
  5. Sorry- Justin Bieber
  6. Never Forget you- MNEK
  7. Watch me( whip nae nae)- Silento
  8. Sax- Fleur East
  9. Fast Car- Tobtok
  10. Ain’t nobody (loves me better)- Felix Jaehan

FASHION AND BEAUTY STORES

  1. Bath and body works
  2. Primark
  3. H&M
  4. Zara
  5. Superdrug
  6. Topshop
  7. Select
  8. The body shop
  9. Boots
  10. Peacock

HAIRSTYLES

  1. Fishtail braid
  2. top not bun
  3. pigtail French plaits
  4. French plaits
  5. plait
  6. side ponytail
  7. high crown ponytail
  8. half up top not
  9. side plait
  10. dutch plaits
VLOGGERS/BLOGGERS
  1. Zoella
  2. Alfie Deyes
  3. Sprinkle of Glitter
  4. Miranda Sings
  5. Tanya Burr
  6. Joe Sugg
  7. Caspar Lee
  8. MayBaby
  9. Poppy
  10. Marcus Butler

Hope u found this blog useful if you have any questions or want to know where you get  stuff from. Thanks for reading:)

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The Power Of A Smile!

A smile is the prettiest thing you can wear.

Whatever you smile about. Whenever you smile. Whoever makes you smile. A smile is the most powerful super power any human can have.

Sometimes you may feel like your having a bad day but no one can survive a day without smiling. Sometimes we just smile because we want to and sometimes other people make us smile. The truth is we don’t know how great a smile is for you. Here are some facts about smiling:

  1. Smiling can relieve stress
  2. It’s easier to smile than to frown
  3. Smiling is really good for your immune system
  4. babies are born with the ability to smile
  5. It takes 5-53 muscles to smile
  6. The more you smile the less likely it is that you’ll become ill
  7. Women smile 10 times as much as men
  8. Smiling is contagious
  9. those who smile tend to live longer
  10. there are 19 different types of smiles
You may be smiling to yourself while reading this or you may be frowning. Try to turn that frown upside down…can you feel a difference? You probably can, are you calmer? The answer should be yes. Now try to smile at someone else whoever it is, you’ll then probably notice that they’ll smile back at you. That is how magnificent a smile is.
We all know how Monday mornings are the worst and scientists say that we don’t smile until 11:24am. Where as on any other day we tend to smile only a few minutes after we wake up. I’ve one a blog post before about school and how to enjoy yourself, well next time you go to school and you feel like it’s just going to be another typical school day
*urgh*. Try to lift your head up, look around you, you’ll realise mostly everyone has a  warm smile stretched across your face. That will then make you smile and the rest of your day will be filled with happiness.
Never stop smiling. Smile to everyone, even everything. BE HAPPY, KEEP SMILING. Please say in the comments below what makes you smile I’d love to hear them thanks for reading.
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You’ve got a friend in me!

I bet everyone here has a best friend, I know I do and if she’s reading this right know I just want her to know that YOU ARE THE BEST THING THAT HAS EVER HAPPENED TO ME and I mean that!! Everyone knows that in a friendship there are a lot of ups and downs. I know that I have experienced times like that (downs and ups). Here are a few tips to help you, hope they help ;)!

  1. If you feel like  your best friend is getting a new BFF, you may be wrong. Let her go. This is really important that you must read it again. LET HER GO. Interfering will not help, it’ll just make things worse. Maybe invite her to a sleepover or play date ( both of them) that way you’ll be able to make friends with her new (maybe) friend. Also, your original friend will realise your still fun and jolly even though there is something wrong!
  2. Spend as much time as you can with her, whether it’s at school or at home. It’s not a great experience if you have a BFF but during the holidays or at school your with someone else or too busy. Try to invite her round and arrange day trips. If you do this once you’ll realise how fun it is and want to do it again and again. This will make you and your friend closer and happier!
  3. Accept your friend as how she is. You may be a fashionista and she may be a jock, but if you try to change any person all your doing is ruining their true qualities. Everyone is amazing in their own ways. Each and everyone of us is special and different in our own ways, if we were all the same there would be no point in being in a friendship!
  4. Don’t let anyone get in the way of your friendship. This happened to me one time and it’s the worst thing ever! One mean girl in our class told me I couldn’t play or go near my best friend. I didn’t handle it very well, I just cried and ran to the bathroom. Not the way to deal with it *CRINGE*! I’ve learnt lots since then, you shouldn’t let it hurt you. Let that person say what they have to say and then you just walk away as if what she said didn’t even come out of her/his mouth.

 

I hope these tips helped you , if you have anything worrying you about your friendship that I haven’t mentioned or you still need help then please tell me in the comments below and I’ll try my hardest to help you. Just remember that no matter what’s going on it’ll always work out. Thank you for reading and please comment if anything.

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SCHOOL DAYS!

We all know that dreaded feeling of going back to school, the early mornings, the studying and all the homework. Some people don’t mind, like me, I see fun. This may sound  like I’m an absolute nerd but it is my last year in Primary and I need to make the most of it.

You all love your friends, don’t you? I love mine, I wouldn’t change them for the world. They always fill me with happiness and I can’t wait to see them. Without our Best friends School life would be like hell! You can still survive without them but it just won’t be as much fun.

If you don’t like school here’s a bit of advice: enjoy it while your there it will be the most memorable time of your life, you would have met your first best friends, learnt hoe to count and read. Without school the rest of our lives would be blank, full of nothing. All I’m saying is enjoy it, before you know it we will be grown up having our own jobs, looking after our kids. By then our childhood will be forgotten but there will always be that one special memory and that always starts with School!

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