Big Jump!

Changing from Primary school to Secondary school will probably be the biggest step in life your ever going to have to take. I find out which Secondary school I’m going to go to on Tuesday. Sometimes the school that you would want to go to may mean you will have to be separated from your closest friends that you have grown up with.

Sometimes changing schools just means your growing up and its the time when you need to start over and try new things (well that’s how I see it), the main thing is your at school to learn. Changing to Secondary does mean harder and more challenging work, all that means is that we have grown up and everyone thinks we are ready to take on more harder challenges. I realized that when I was walking around all the different schools everything looked so big and more modern. There’s nothing wrong with that but at the moment it will feel different to us, think about it, if your one of those people who are in Year 6 in only a couple of months we will be in a total other school with other people and new friends.

Making new friends probably won’t be easy because you don’t know them. You don’t know what they are like and you wouldn’t want to be in the wrong crowd. My advice is be friendly and try to understand each other, find your similarities and differences. Try to look as presentable as you can and be CONFIDENT, believe that you can do it! But be careful who you make friends with make sure they are safe and trustworthy.

Turning over a new leaf. Most of us would want to start over and be who you truly are because sometimes we pretend to be someone else to get someone to like you. I have recently discovered that being myself makes people like me more, for example: the boy I have a crush on, ever since I started to be myself he started to like me! Being yourself isn’t always a bad thing, if anything it’s the best because that’s why god created you. Changing yourself to be someone else isn’t going to help anyone, but changing from someone you aren’t to being someone you are will help you 110%.

Don’t believe in movie eg: High School Musical, although it’s a great movie not all of it is entirely true. Especially not breaking out into a song every moment you can! I can tell you one thing (even though I’m not in secondary yet) that Secondary School will make you feel as comfortable as you were in Primary.

Good Luck to all of you who are about to go into Secondary! I hope you feel welcome and safe. Please comment if you have any queries about starting Secondary, I’ll try my hardest to help. Thank you for reading this!

Still searching for my dream…

 

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9 thoughts on “Big Jump!

  1. grace de cani says:

    I’m in her class and her BFF and I’m also really nervous about moving to secondary school. If you think you’re never going to see your friends, that’s not true. Just because you’re moving schools and will get a new group of friends doesn’t mean you cant have two groups of friends! If you want to stay in touch with your old friends its your job to invite them to your birthday parties, sleepovers, go on shopping trips or maybe go to the theme park or something. Anything to keep you and your friends together. If you think about it these friends have been with you with your first crush, first assembly, first day at primary school even!! My sister left primary school to move on to secondary school two years ago now and every week meets up with her old friends, she’s still better friends with them than her new ones. You never know, you might end up going to the same secondary school!!

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  2. Ayesha says:

    Good luck to you for this new phase in your life. You have a very mature outlook to life and I believe you’ll get along with all the new challenges and experience along the way. πŸ‘πŸΌπŸŽ“πŸŽ’

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  3. alaher1 says:

    It is a huge step but you have the right skills and knowledge to help you flourish in a new environment. Remember everyone else will be feeling exactly the same – nervous, excited! Just be good at judging character and you will make good, kind friends! Also you can give advise if others are not doing quite what they should be! Walk away but hopefully you won’t need to.
    Change is good. It helps you become the person you will become.

    Xx

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